Balancing our wings
Memories are like wings, they keep you flying, like a bird on the wind.
Beautifully expressed by Al Pacino in his autobiography, "Sonny Boy," the words capture the essence of what memories mean to us.
But memories also possess a duality, much like wings themselves. They are capable of lifting us to new heights, but if clung to too tightly, they can hinder our flight.
Memories can offer comfort and remind us of the love and joy we have experienced. They contribute to our sense of self, acting as a source of strength and inspiration. They teach us to make better decisions in the present.
However, this guidance can become a hindrance if we hold on to memories too much.
These beautiful recollections can mislead us, comparing the present to an idealized version of the past, undervaluing the good that exists here and now. The longing for "the good old days" can blind us to the beauty and opportunities of today.
As with most things in life, balance is key. It allows our memories to truly act as wings, lifting us higher as we view the beauty of the past beneath us.