Beyond bragging
We've all encountered those individuals whose voices boom with self-praise, each word a testament to their own perceived greatness. It's rarely a charming trait, leaving the impression that their world is the only one that matters.
But then, there are those who speak with a self-confidence that feels not boastful, but simply honest. I think the Swedish director and game designer Josef Fares embodies this quality.
In a recent interview, he spoke of his strong self-belief and his ability to achieve his goals. He added, with a light laugh, that it might sound like delusions of grandeur, but clarified the distinction:
"I know I'm awesome at what I do, but it never takes over. I would never value myself more than anyone else. There's no way!"
The sincerity in his voice leaves no room for doubt. It's refreshingly genuine.
The crucial difference lies in recognizing one's own worth without elevating oneself above others. One can possess material wealth and remain grounded, while another, with little to their name, may harbor a sense of superiority. It’s all about the inner self, not what manifests outwardly.
The person's attitude towards life and their place on earth—that's what truly counts. Josef Fares captures this beautifully:
"For me, life is like a playhouse and I'm here playing."
In essence, true confidence is not about loud pronouncements, but about a quiet, assured understanding of one's own abilities, coupled with a genuine respect for others. It’s about playing your part in the playhouse of life with both passion and humility.